(I'm a parent, and -oh, the horror - half my kids now see boobs when they look in the mirror each day.)
The best filtering program there is consists of not allowing computers in areas of the house where kids expect privacy. (Yes, I realizethat's not software.)
Don't dumb the whole damned web down to what's appropriate to the most fragile viewer you can imagine.
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