eho, sorry i could not help more in resolving things with jit. i am sorry to you and to him and to the sito community.
maybe this is why on bigger sites that can afford to pay people to work for them, they hire conflict resolution managers? or maybe they have strict 'terms of service' and just kick everyone off? i dont know.
anyway, i am sorry this has happened. you can email me if you want or need to at email@example.com
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